There is a difference between an obituary and a death notice. An obituary is usually the longer "story" version of the person's life; the death notice is usually smaller in size and in type style. This differs depending on what your local paper does. The average charge around the country is about $9.00 per line. For the Chicago Sun Times, it's ; the New York Times is ; the LA Times is ; and the Houston is . An obituary is written in the same type as the other stories in the newspaper. Because of the space used and its nature as a news story (and is therefore not paid for by the family), the decision to print one is soley at the discretion of the newspaper's staff. Although some funeral directors charge to write the obituary and get it to the newspaper, most do not. Even if your funeral director will assist you with this, sometimes people choose to write as much as they can on their own. Some families choose to simply include basic biographical information and some choose to include a more detailed background and include clubs, organizations, activities, interests and accomplishments.
In some of the larger cities where newspaper space is at a premium, there's a charge for the death notice so it is printed in the day's issue(s) of your choosing and with the wording you submit (for the most part). In those papers, an obituary, the bigger type news story kind, is only run at the paper's discretion, depending on space and also unfortunately, how prominent the deceased was. Because it's run at the paper's choice, it's free of charge.
In smaller cities, it can be one of two ways -
Photos can be included, usually for an additional cost, typically $25-$35. Some newspapers include symbols for an additional charge. Most newspapers do NOT charge for a flag symbol if the deceased was a veteran. Other available symbols typically include a shamrock, butterfly (rebirth), organ donor (gift of life), angel, cross, praying hands, Star of David, Navy, Army, Air Force, Marines, police, fire, Moose, Mason, Eastern Star, Knights of Columbus, Odd Fellows, and Ukranian symbol.
Even if you want to keep it simple, consider these tips: